For example, your friend goes “Hey, I went to Las Vegas last week” and then you reply, “Oh yeah, me too. Conversations with friends always end up with your experience, your life, your dog, your cat, your work. A sign that you are one is that you always make everything about you. Many energy vampires think of themselves as stars of their own show. If you’re only letting people know about your misery just for the sake of it, then you’re simply looking for a quick fix and it’s not going to make your life any better. How long do you think can people continue to do that before they feel drained? It is okay to ask friends for help from time to time, and when they do offer help, you must accept that. Playing the victim is basically asking other people to lift you up by using their own energy. You always talk about “poor you”ĭo you throw pity parties all the time? Ever get into a fight with your significant other and post less-than vivid details about it on social media, making you appear like the martyr? Do you regularly talk about unfortunate events in your life and overplay it, waiting for people to jump in and tell you how they feel sorry for you and how everything will be okay? Do you constantly ask for advice about the things going on in your life, only to brush off your friends comments because you feel that they don’t know what they’re talking about? If you need to make others feel guilty so you can justify what you do, feel good about yourself or achieve a certain goal, then you are using a form of emotional manipulation that takes out energy from other people. Lines like “Oh look, you’re going out again! Don’t you know that I never even visit my sick and dying mom just so I can spend my time with you?” or “Okay, go ahead and do what you like while I stay here and do all the housework like I always do” are very common lines that evoke feelings of guilt from the receiver.
If you do this all the time, people around you may feel as if you are taking away energy from them. Most of us like to use guilt as a weapon to get what we want. Are they always complaint sessions? If this is the case, try to look at the bright side and talk about things that are empowering for both you and your friend. Take a look at all your relationships with others and recall your latest conversations.
Whenever you talk to someone like family members or friends, what do you usually talk about first? Do you share talk about the positive things and good news, and do you ask others to do the same so you can share that happiness, or do you dive right into a sea of complaints and rant about everything? If your friend is nodding politely as you gabber on and on about one bad experience to the next, then you might be an energy vampire. Opinions that hurt other people can be said in a nice way or not said at all, and energy vampires do not understand that. They think that their honesty is done with good intentions, and they do not stop to think what other people would feel about what they say. What do you do? Energy vampires would usually say something along these lines: “ Oh my god, where did you get that dress? That’s so hideous! Get out of here and go change that!” Some may see that as honesty, but there are other (and better) ways to be honest.Įnergy vampires don’t think about the consequences of what they say.
Let’s say your friend is wearing a very hideous dress. They may even treat their opinions like fact. Your Opinions Are FactĮnergy vampires believe that their opinions matter, and that they are always correct. 8 Signs You Might Be An Energy Vampire 1. This is a natural reaction because your subconscious is trying to remove you from the negative influence.
You also may begin to feel exhausted for no apparent reason and want to leave the space you are in. You’ll know you’ve encountered a psychic vampire or an energy vampire when a warm, lively vibe suddenly goes cold, quiet, and depressing. Also known as energy vampires, psychic vampires are people who quite simply suck the energy out of a room. The reality of what they are is much less exciting and extreme, but they can still affect you just as severely. When you hear the term psychic vampire for the first time, you might picture a blood-sucking demon.
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